Relationships Forum Chatter & Grey Matter

Talk to ur husband openly about both of ur future and what is his stake in the marriage.

 

if kanyadaan is true,then the boys side have to pay for wedding and dowry to the girls parents, since the daughter is being donated

 

frogs. are the frogs the inlaws,bil,sil etc

 

I cannot speak for other questions but I am reasonably sure this particular one is actually not aimed at the physician. Its to check if the scheduler is doing its job. Most docs offices and hospitals esp the ones with specialists use some form of scheduler software. ( Its a very interesting optimization problem ) Studies have shown that if a patient is consistently waiting for more than X min there is a greater chance he/she will go else where for service . That is why they pay $$ for a good scheduler ...they are making sure they r getting their moneys worth .

 

Sure, yes, I picked a benign question for reasons of privacy, but trust me, asking an uninformed person to rate a physician is a bit like our old "girl seeing" (!) ceremony in the context of an arranged marriage. Some insights can indeed be gained, but on the whole, superficial characteristics acquire undue importance!

 

I cannot rein in your imagination, but rest assured that the caste system was farthest from my mind. I was making a point about relative value, more in line with the ironic sense of "Harrison Bergeron". I am utterly unabashed about denigrating the engineers of the abuses in the US healthcare system, including greedy hack physicians, but the geniuses who came up with the chargemaster deserve their own circle of hell. For details on one source of my anger and disgust, read "An American Sickness".

 

Ha... it is a contract agreed to under duress. Perhaps a wee bit more serious than these online user-agreements that we click on and convey we had read that. After the hormones settle down, each party gets a bargaining position, and they renegotiate.

 

I don't think I had to use much of my imagination, the condescension implied and the interesting choice of words like doofus & licking boots brought flashes from history book pages before my eyes! I understand your anger towards the over engineered QC systems, but unfortunately it seemed like it was aimed at the poor survey designer & his worth & implied superiority of the doctor. I think you heard me.

 

@Rihana there was a thread ( I think started by you) giving pointers for what a girl should keep in mind while groom searching. Does that ring a bell, can you please please post the link here? My search, so far ,has been fruitless .

PS- Apologies if I am using the wrong thread to ask