My Last "india"thread. Plsss Bear With Me..

@anika, i feel more than friends or india, what you need is a goal or purpose in life. you need to do things which you are passionate about. celebrating festivals, spending time with friends is fine, but these things are very very small part of life...these things are needed in life, but these things alone dont make your life happy.
if you are not able to find satisfaction in daily chores then you need to ask yourself what is it you want to do....what can make you to go on?? if you want to work then what you want to to achieve, doing job just for the sake of money/or timepass is different than working for your passion, ambition and achievement.
either make yourself career driven if you are not career driven types than constantly think how can you do things in more better way at home. we need to improve our self constantly in professional world, same way we shoule keep on improving our self even if we are SAHM.
daily life is same everywhere, whether in india or elsewhere. if you are not finding satisfaction in your daily routine here, then even after moving to India , when novelty will wean off, you will start feeling the same.
although i agree that feel of india is much better any time and it can not be replaced. But in your case i dont think its only india. I have read your other posts too. you seem to think that in india people are constantly going for meeting friends, having party etc. while it is far from truth. even in india people daily go to job, cook n clean etc. after a certain age satisfaction comes from your family life and your work (be it SAHM or some other professional work), after a certain age everybody becomes busy in their life and friendships start to become shallow. socialization/outings/relatives is just a part of life, can not be the life itself. plus the kind of person you are, i feel you are into awe of social butterflies, but you are not into too much socialization as it requires energy and time.
please pardon me if my observations are wrong.

 

you enjoyed with your friends when you went for vacations, but if you move to india how many times you would be able to enjoy it again n again. you enjoyed it as you were getting that punch of India in meagre quantity like chilly in food, if you move to India then very soon these things will loose charm.
You can go to india every year, and enjoy like a rich girl. but if you move to india everyday you will not do it and you will loose even this once a year chance.

I think almost everybody misses India who are living abroad. and returning back to India is good but reasons you are citing are not valid reasons. They are illusions.