Life After Marriage For Ladies

iyerviji · Aug 27, 2016

vaidehi71 said: ↑

Mami,
So true.
Very good quotes.
Thanks for the snippet.
Vaidehi
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Thanks Vaidehi, glad to know you liked the quotes and the snippet

iyerviji · Aug 27, 2016

leenarajaryan said: ↑

Vijima ~ (Sorry to call u by this name but I saw many ladies calling you by this name & I liked it too hence I called you by this name, hope that is fine with you) You have penned the thought so superbly. Your explanation on the word " marriage" seems so perfect. I agree with each word u wrote.
Mine is a Love marriage & we both are Maharashtrians but with totally different culture altogether. We believe in god while they don't, we were vegetarians & they non vegetarians. Now I have transformed myself as per there culture including the food part. But in initial years though I knew it would be like that I was not able to cope up with his family resulting clashes. Now when I have done with there lifestyle the clashes have gradually reduced. But I always feel why the husbands cannot ever adjust the wife with however she is, why they want to change them as per there wish. While if we expect them to change they are stubborn to get changed.
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Why should you be sorry Leena dear, glad to know you wanted to call be Vijima, no problem at all. True dear husbands want their wife to change. Glad though in the beginning you had problems you changed yourself

iyerviji · Aug 27, 2016

jayasala42 said: ↑

Dear Viji,
Wonderful quotes.
Now a days, no MIl stays with DIL and since the meeting is rare,
hello','hello' relationship is always warm.These days boys face more problems
than girls.We advise boys along similar lines as was done with girls some 25 years back.
No question of woman waiting for the sound of foot steps of man.In a hurry life with different hours of work for man and the lady,
with children at day care centre, actually children wait either for mom or Dad either at home or day care centre.
With hardly any time to converse, many instructions are passed over sms .Even a conversation thro phone may end up in unnecessary conflicts.
Mostly they want to avoid conflicts.Though this may seem to be in exaggeration, in reality it is worse than what I have written.

I feel more for kids than for the man and the lady.how many more changes we are going to see? As we become accustomed, it will not look like a 'change' but will become part and parcel of the daily inevitability.

Jayasala 42[/QUOTEVery true Jayakka dear since both go to work they dont wait to hear the footsteps. Sometimes the wife comes late. Its the children who wait for their parents. Thanks for sharing the facts in today's life .
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iyerviji · Aug 27, 2016

creativemind23 said: ↑

Very nice. As always I enjoy your simple writing style, layered with words of wisdom. It feels more like you are talking than writing. I think that's why your readers connect to you instantly.
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Glad to know you enjoy my writing style. Thanks for your complients which made my day dear

iyerviji · Aug 27, 2016

creativemind23 said: ↑

I loved the first line "marriages are like fingerprints"
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Glad you liked the first line

PushpavalliSrinivasan · Aug 27, 2016

Dear Viji,
A thought provoking post.
After marriage women are like transplanted plants. Our age group had somehow or other got adjusted to the new environment. But nowadays we find brake of marriages quite often.
For a successful marriage mutual respect, forberance and mutual trust and uadjustment is required. Ego clashes will ruin the family life.
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iyerviji · Aug 27, 2016

Glad to know you liked the quotes , very true about adjustments

iyerviji · Aug 27, 2016

PushpavalliSrinivasan said: ↑

Dear Viji,
A thought provoking post.
After marriage women are like transplanted plants. Our age group had somehow or other got adjusted to the new environment. But nowadays we find brake of marriages quite often.
For a successful marriage mutual respect, forberance and mutual trust and uadjustment is required. Ego clashes will ruin the family life.
PS
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Very true Pushpa Mami times have changed , our times we adjusted. After engagement itself marriage is cancelled . Thanks Mami for the feedback

Caide · Aug 28, 2016

iyerviji said: ↑

Glad to know that your parents care for each other, glad to know about their love for each other.
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yeah even i feel jealous sometimes