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  1. Mar 16, 2013 #11
    Cuteprincess

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    Done with enough of talks and arguments. Its diff to change ppl you see :) So Now I have changed myself which is the only option left. I Have decided not to ask anything for myself. And I wud like to mention I was never unreasonable in my demands. Anyways thanks for blessing me :)
     
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  2. Mar 16, 2013 #12
    Anitap

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    We discuss about things before buying.
    I do it more and he gets angry saying "you are an adult. Make a decision and buy it."
     
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    MaritalBliss

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    We only discuss for big ticket items...we never ask for permission.
     
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  4. Mar 16, 2013 #14
    Anandchitra

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    dear Kylie
    excellent ! so happy to read yours;
    I admire Lord Shiva for giving his wife half of himself and so they are equal parts.. right :)
    love
    chitra


     
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    Anandchitra

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    Yes this is the way to discuss before buying esp major items. Good for you.. btw I always wondered whether you are an adult.. :rotfl:rotfl
    :spin:spin
    :drowning:drowning

     
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  6. Mar 16, 2013 #16
    Anandchitra

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    Wonderful glad to see you step in and a beautiful comment :)

     
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    disillusion

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    In my case I have to ask permission from both husband and MIL. Both don't consider me as an adult person.
     
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    Anitap

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    :oops: did I just walk into that trap voluntarily? :bonk...... :crazy.... :rotfl. You caught me there AC :thumbsup.
     
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    smritisinha

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    Dear AC,

    wishing / discussing about that kind of set-up needs permission too, for some!!! :bonk Its just a dream you stop visiting and try to forget, it doesnt make one happier thinking about things that could have been there!!!

    For the rest (like you), you are lucky! Touchwood :thumbsup

    Wish that if I have a son, he should be like that. And daughter too, for that matter!! :)
     
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  10. Mar 16, 2013 #20
    Anandchitra

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    Dear Friend
    What a lovely comment you have written.. absolutely love this; thanks much

    Honestly feel its got nothing to do with luck but hard work.. :my2cents

    Children grow up to be how we work and shape them to be.. with Gods grace:)

     
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