Household Chores Division

I literally lol
But really , he knows I am hanging by a thread. I dont expect him to say the right things like my girl friends. But atleast dont say the wrong thing!

I swear, ever since he has taken on dish duty , he is very sensitive to how many dishes are used - proving my theory that men will nag just as much as women , if not more , if they have to do the mind numbing day after day , non-glamourous chores

 

a while ago we had friends over.This is a couple we are very close to. So candid conversations were on the table. DH said something about the kitchen being clean , since the cleaners made a visit the previous day.
I said , are you telling him that its otherwise not clean? The friend in question ( husband) was flabbergasted and he was literally like , I did not think that.
I looked at the wife and she was nodding her head in agreement with me

 

I cannot even
Servicing vehicles is a at worse monthly if not quarterly.. even then , all you have to do is make the appointment ( I have been asked to make these calls as well , kibosh I am the personal secretary) and drop the vehicle.
Going with the children to the park is a fun activity , I would imagine and the mother would want to do that too! If she can get a break from the drudgery?
The kitchen doesnt need space, sharing doesnt mean it has to be at the same time ( although when the almighty male chef is in the kitchen , the wife is expected to hang out to keep him company )
In my experience , when you always do something , its BAU ( business as usual) and doesnt earn any credit.

 

Next time :
Your Hus : 'Whats for dinner'
You : 'Oh honey , its sweet of you to let me choose, but I will eat whatever you serve '