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Would you want to meet half siblings you didn't know about?

Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by whatisaguytodo, Oct 16, 2012.

  1. whatisaguytodo

    whatisaguytodo Gold IL'ite

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    Here's an interesting topic. My dad has had several mistresses in his life. His current one is his secretary. A while back, I heard from my mother that a long time ago he had an affair with another lady and he had 2 kids. There's also another kid somewhere but she doesn't know the details. Would you want to meet them? There are 2 boys and a girl.
     
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  2. OCdesigirl

    OCdesigirl Gold IL'ite

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    yes, so that we could bond an get to know each other, it is not their fault that their parent did something wrong.
     
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    Radhai Platinum IL'ite

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    Nah.. not interested to meet your half siblings.
     
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    veeramachaneni Platinum IL'ite

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    Nope I wouldn't want to meet them. I know it is not their fault but I would be embarrassed to introduce them to anyone including my DH. So No.
     
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    eandian IL Hall of Fame

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    No. Unnecessary emotional problems.

    Yes. if they take the initiative and wish to meet me.
     
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    helpmeangel Platinum IL'ite

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    Absolutely not!! I do not want to see my dad's face/features in them. I would feel disgusted in him and would just be reminded of all his fallacies. I am willing to be happy in my own world thinking that they never exist!
     
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    No,i would not like to meet them.
     
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    smritisinha Platinum IL'ite

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    No. Never.

    I would not want to meet the proofs that my dad's been dis-loyal. Knowing that would be enough for me to cut him out of my life. I hate INFIDELITY, emotional, physical, any sort.

    Not their fault, I know. But I wouldn't be able to help myself from being depressed and going mad if anything like this happens, and I'm made to face it.
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    deleted... not needed.
     
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    This is not a hypothetical situation for me. Few years ago I learned that my dad has another child with his mistress. I heard that it's a girl and has some of my features. I can't bear the thought, I am not ready to meet her. I know it's not her fault but I am not mature enough to deal it now. I don't know if I ever will.
     

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