Hi Ladies, i have been thinking of this for a long time, and want to know your thoughts. If you could do it all over again would you marry the same man (if you knew this would be your future)? I'll start by saying, that i would probably not marry the man i am married to right now. I really have no security in my relationship with him, becasue of his family. I am TRYING to follow your good advice, forgive, forget, move on etc. but there is so much pain. I feel trapped in this marriage, as i have a kid, my husb will never let me have kid alone, never, so i guess i am forced tostay here until they are 18 years old(right now they are 2). Any thoughts????