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worries about my daughter's puberty

Discussion in 'Schoolgoers & Teens' started by subbula, May 25, 2010.

  1. subbula

    subbula New IL'ite

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    Dear friends,

    My daughter is 12.6 years old. and my sister has also daughter in the same age( 15 days younger) . But a month back she has reached pub( Become women).

    I am worried about my daughter, Since she have gone an operation related to colon (Rectum was closed by birth). and now she is normal.


    please i am seeking an advice or suggestions...
     
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  2. Priya_Mommy

    Priya_Mommy Gold IL'ite

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    Just have patience subbula.
    Sometimes it happens at late age. I got it when I was 14+.
    Your daughter is still 12.6, so too early I believe. If you still have queries,contact Gynic and checkout if she has any gynic issues which is stoppign her pub.
     
  3. Haniya123

    Haniya123 New IL'ite

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    Dear Subbula...

    There is no rule to mature at the same age...But you are tensed because you are a MOTHER... thats it..

    Everybody is different and the food we consume, our daily routine and other things also matter...

    I matured at the age of 16 after my SSLC... you know... I was very much worried as all my friends had matured in 7th or 8th itself... Only I was remaining... but it happened during my vacation ...

    It takes time some as early as 9 and some may be 17 also...

    SO dont worry... still if you have some doubt as she has undergone surgery... you can contact a gynae...


    :thumbsupHaniya
     
  4. Shanvy

    Shanvy IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear subbula,

    Relax. nature has its way.

    your daughter could take after your dh's family too. so, ensure, she is having the correct weight and height and also that all the other growths are normal. (breast development, underarm hair )

    if you are tensed, you could check out with your gynaec too.

    I will move this post to the school goers and teens.

    be prepared and teach your daughter to be prepared and let her enjoy her carefree time right now.
     
  5. subbula

    subbula New IL'ite

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    Thank You friends.
    my daughter weight is 45 kg and height is 145 cm.
    Subbula
     
  6. tashidelek2002

    tashidelek2002 IL Hall of Fame

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    If your daughter's docs are telling you she is developing normally, then stop worrying. Age 12 and no menses is not unusual. My dad's mom didn' t get until she was 17 and she raised five kids. Time lines are different for different girls.
     
    Last edited: May 29, 2010

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