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Discussion in 'Pregnancy & Labor' started by blessbabydust, Apr 14, 2010.

  1. blessbabydust

    blessbabydust IL Hall of Fame

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    Iam bit worried because i dont feel pregnant and usually i feel baby movement Last i realised a butterfly flutter i always have a feeling whether my baby is okay or not from begin of pregnancy ??? i pray to god daily (murugan and garbarakshmibigai ) because iam blessed by them only ... Please sisters pray for my safe delivery and healthy baby . Iam also suffering cold from begin of pregnancy and weather is bit cold in sydney ........... iam not taking any medicine but only chest rubs or vicks .
     
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  2. Drpreethis

    Drpreethis Gold IL'ite

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    Hey RELAXXX !!

    How far are you in your pregnancy.. ? From the " butterfly flutter feeling " you say, I assume you are much before the 26th week.. Dont worry, movements arent felt till later to 26 for some women.. I understand this is one weird phase, where you lose all symptoms and feel best of your energy but you also dont feel the movements regularly..

    Whatever it is, any fear , just call the Gynec and tell her you want to meet her. Visit and listen to the doppler ! Once you ehar the heart beat, you will no longer worry !!

    Dont panic.. Keep your faith going. God will not let you down..

    Take care, Girl ! :kiss
     
  3. gokusha

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    Hi blessbay dust,

    First Congratulations!!!!don't worry, its very usual of this feeling during pregnancy.

    Think positively at the same time keep recording movements.From your post i guess same as Preethi, youshould be before 25-26wks.

    Once you start feeling movements very well also, somedays you mightwell no movements.

    It might be because of our other works and not focussing on movements, so if you have any search doubt better have glass of organge juice & sit calm ,relaxing at one place....surely you will feel the movement after some time.

    Pray god to bless you with safe delivery.
     
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    peartree Platinum IL'ite

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    blessbabydust

    I completely empathize with you, in fact I am exactly in the same boat as you are. Problem is, I don't even know if what I am feeling is the baby kicking and I start freaking out 1 week after every doctor appointment as to whether everything is fine with the baby, until the next appointment when I hear the heartbeat and I almost start weeping with relief. And the cycle repeats.

    I am currently 20 weeks and 3 days, so is it normal at this stage to not experience very pronounced kicking? I read all over the internet how people feel the baby move at 12 weeks and 14 weeks and keep wondering why I can't feel it.

    All the best blessbabydust. I will keep you in my prayers and pray for all of us who are expecting can get over this feeling of fear and have a safe pregnancy journey and healthy little ones.
     
  5. Drpreethis

    Drpreethis Gold IL'ite

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    Pear,

    Each of us have been there.. Infact, I felt my sonny's movements as early as 14 weeks.. It started off as flutters to mild popcorn making.. :)

    I felt his first kick as early as 20 weeks.. But, somedays, he chooses to not make his movement felt ! :bonkI know how much I used to wonder as well ! I desperately wait for the appointment. It is very normal for all of us to worry.. the baby is within us and so we constantly wonder !

    My hubby used to ask me to relaxx.. But when he started to feel the movement when I was 22 weeks, one day he doesnt, he looks worried at me and asks, Where is he ? Why dont I feel anything ? :crazy

    Fun part was, I could feel him mostly and hubby felt him occassionally !!

    Even after 30 weeks on few days, they decide to turn to our back and kick, you dont know where ! Sometimes, we miss it, sometimes we wonder which part of our body is he kicking !

    Bottomline, your positive attitude and calmness, will help your LO too.

    You know something Pear, once you start to feel the movements regularly and as the baby grows bigger, the movement becomes more slow and rigid. It no more remains the soft kicks.. it is because they have less room to move itseems.. Even then, we get so worried thinking - Do they have enough space to grow, are they weighing well !! :)

    We will just find new things to worry about. I think that is a perk in motherhood !

    Take care..
     
  6. shrutidunwoody

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    Dont panic dear. Listen to these ladies. I am just 12 weeks pregnant so dont know what to advise you. But if you have any doubts just call the doctor and let them know. They only will suggest you what to do.
     
  7. blessbabydust

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    Thanks ladies for your support and prayers Iam in my 17th week of pregnancy as all sisters have advised i feel so energetic and no tired .... hi pear i do the same one week after doctors appointment iam okay than my worry cycle starts and when i hear heartbeat and movements in Ultrasound I started to cry doctor said why u always cry ..... your baby is healthy and fine just enjoy ur time .... all i do is shake my head but been alone in my home i keep millions things worry .... after i see my husband from work all my worry flies off and enjoy the time with him ...... since it is my first pregnancy i feel so weird and worried mommy . Only prayers to Murugan and garbarakshmibgai keeps me lil alive during day time else i would have been into post delivery depression status ........................ anyway GOD is only thing who can give my mind peace and have safe delivery of my baby .
     
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    Dear dont worry everthing will be fine. Whenever you are scared, just take God's name.Pregnancy is a phase where at every stage we tend to worry . Just try to be happy. Watch good God movies,read good books which will keep you busy. Just dont worry dear.
     
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    Moms-to-be,

    Don't worry. It is totally normal not to feel baby movements before 20th week. Infact when i was Pg. I felt the first movement only @ 24 weeks and more frequent movements @ 28 weeks. DH did not feel the movements until 30 weeks.

    Every baby is different and every pregnancy is different. Keep your faith in God and pray.

    My midwife told me to drink something sweet and lie on the left side to feel the baby move. But it never worked for me!! Even I freaked out but kept faith in God.

    Once they start kicking, they won't stop!! Believe me..

    So relax and enjoy the pregnancy.
     
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    no wonder thats true
    my little fellow inside is for sure a boxer :rotfl
     

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