worried about his new victim

since she and her family knows that it's his second marriage, wait till they approach you for information. If not, move on. nothing to feel conscious about. if it matters to you that much, stay searchable on the internet and facebook so they can reach you rather easily with a small amount of effort.

otherwise, focus on making your life. he is history best forgotten. you shoud look ahead not in the rear view mirror.

 

No need to send anonymous letters and jeopardize your credibility. First of all, think about it a lot. Is it really a big deal for you to warn her? Decide that first. If you feel you really have to, then do so in a dignified manner. If you ever happen to run into her, introduce yourself to her. Tell her that one day if she feels the need to get in touch with you then these are the contact details. Then leave it. But dont seek her out on purpose to do this. Only if you happen to meet by chance or fate puts you together face to face not by your design then do this. Till then, only wait.

 

Dear OP,

I totally understand what you are going through,but you have already faced a lot my dear!! dont bother about him anymore I understand the guilt always remains and will take time to fade. Buy that time stay away from him or his news.Concentrate on your career if you are working or get yourself indulged in your hobbies or even better go for a nice holiday trip.you need to pamper yourself now. You need time for yourself.

What had to happen has happened. It is that girl's and her parents responsibility to verify and confirm everything before getting married to a divorced guy. They need to take the responsibility in knowing what went wrong in the first marriage. When they are not keen on knowing why are you keen on letting them know.dont even give her any anonymous messages, it is obvivous that it is you who is sending the messages.No offence but you would be hurting yourself more when they make a fool of you coz no one is going to- forget believing, wont even listen to you and inturn abuse you even more.

be happy and positive minded that you are out of that abusive marraige. God has given you another chance to enjoy life.make full use of it.concentrate on yourself now.leave the rest to god!!

Best of luck dear!!