Working mothers

iyerviji · Jun 1, 2010

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Dear Mallika

Good toknow that Sudha takes care of you when you come home and is ready with a hot cup of coffee. YOu are a proud mother now. Isnit it. Leaving in a creche and going to office is difficult , Ihave also gone through the same phase but I used to leave with a lady in our house only.

love
viji

Soldier said: ↑

Hi Viji Aunty!

Made me nostalgic. I remembered the days when I used to leave office go straight to the creche where Harish and Sudha from different schools used to be dropped there and I will bring them back on my way home.

Now all those hard days are over. Nowadays I come home late and she treats me to hot coffee!!

But such issues have become part and parcel of everyone's life as present day living demands have increased multifold!!
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iyerviji · Jun 1, 2010

Dear SiriVeda

Dont worry God will show you a better way and will take care of you and the child. Congratulations and all the best for safe delivery.
love
viji

iyerviji · Jun 1, 2010

Dear Raji

I know how difficult it is when you have to leave the child in a creche. Luckily I had a lady in the house to look after but sometimes she used to creat trouble. True God is there to take care of everything for working mothers.

love
viji

rajiravi said: ↑

Dear viji ma,

yes you are right......again you have come up with an important topic... feel really sad for your daughter.....but what to do....we ladies should face this at one point of time or other .....even i faced the same problem when i was leaving my elder daughter at baby care....i started leaving her in the baby care centre when she was just 4 months old.....i know how they miss us and at the same time, what all problems we have to face when we leave them at creche.... I should say, God only really gives strength for us to manage both office and home....that way i think we are really lucky
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brahan · Aug 12, 2010

iyerviji said: ↑

Today seeing my daughter struggling brought me back memories of my working times. Atleast during my working period we had a maid to look after the children, though we had problems with her. I had not to leave my children somewhere else and go to office.
But my younger daughter leaves her daughter in her in law’s house and goes. If she leaves at 9 a.m. then only she can reach in time. Morning she has to prepare breakfast and also something for the night. Some days I go to her house in the morning so that I can be of some help to her. Today when I went her daughter was having milk in half sleep and was not ready to get up. I was feeling so sad that she is not able to sleep peacefully. Somehow we made her get up and got her ready. Once she got up she started smiling . My daughter was going down the steps fast I could not keep with her speed, her daughter was looking whether I am coming behind or not. She takes a rick and drops her daughter in in law’s house and takes the same rickshaw to the station. Though I have also gone through some difficulties during work , feel sorry for my daughter. Evening she comes home has coffee,cuts the vegetables , then goes and brings her daughter and the work goes on. No time to spend with her daughter much. Only Saturday evening and Sunday whole day she has time to be with her daughter. Her daughter goes to sleep late so gets up also late in the morning.
Now a days girls cant sit at home also due to the cost of living.

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Well Said Viji Ma,

My mother /MIlaw are Home Makers.So before my Kid was born i had lot of Pampering from both of them. I was Served Hot Hot dinner after i come back from Work.

Now i have a Son and i am finding it diff at times to balance my Work and Personal Life. I am very Grateful to my MIL. She takes care of my Son. As she stays with us, she helps me in cooking and other chores. But during her Absence my stress Levels has increased. I was finding it diff to manage work and Home. At many times i skipped Home and had Junk food outside. Just 3 months of stress affected a lot Physically and Mentally. I put on Weight due to Stress, looked more tired and had no Enthu :bonk.

But now that she is back , i am bit relaxed.:coffee

iyerviji · Aug 16, 2010

Dear Brahan

Thank you for reviving my thread. Glad to know your mother in law takes care of your child . Though you had to struggle without her for sometime good that she is back now.

love
viji

brahan said: ↑

Well Said Viji Ma,

My mother /MIlaw are Home Makers.So before my Kid was born i had lot of Pampering from both of them. I was Served Hot Hot dinner after i come back from Work.

Now i have a Son and i am finding it diff at times to balance my Work and Personal Life. I am very Grateful to my MIL. She takes care of my Son. As she stays with us, she helps me in cooking and other chores. But during her Absence my stress Levels has increased. I was finding it diff to manage work and Home. At many times i skipped Home and had Junk food outside. Just 3 months of stress affected a lot Physically and Mentally. I put on Weight due to Stress, looked more tired and had no Enthu :bonk.

But now that she is back , i am bit relaxed.:coffee
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Raba · Aug 16, 2010

Dear Mami,

I find the role as a 'working wife' difficult. Oh no! I am scared now itself how the role as a 'working mother will be':spin

iyerviji · Aug 16, 2010

Dear Raba

Dont worry Raba your role as a working mother will be very good. When you will have support from your near ones why worry

love
viji

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