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Wife's reaction to roadside pervert !!!

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by trueloveseek, May 11, 2014.

  1. newlymarried007

    newlymarried007 New IL'ite

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    I think, the wife delivered and baby is 3 months :confused2:
     
  2. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    The first post mentions that this incidence happened when she was nine months pregnant.I missed it the first time I read it.
     
  3. RedRuby

    RedRuby Platinum IL'ite

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    This is exactly what i thought!!!!!! Because it wud be the reason for me to just walk away, coz of dissapointment due to lack of protection.

    Maybe she was even checking if you wud do something if she saw you recognised the men?

    I agree i wud be surprised too if my hubby just pulls me towards him like that but in that story it sounds like there are different options why she did react so, her having EMA does NOT appear to me as one. Maybe your wife is dissapointed by mens behavior and used to an unsecure surrounding? If your mother knows about such incedents please talk to her too, both women are unsafe in that house it seems.

    I would actually get quite angry at my hubby if he knows im googled at and he doesnt do something about it. Ask her why she didnt come and told you about such incedents before (lack of trust?), maybe she told your mom or tried to talk to you or even observed previous times lack of protection from your side (please not i dont want to attack im just guessing what it cud be out of female perspective).

    One more option was that she indeed realised that man oogling at her and she used it as a test for you.. and you failed...

    Plus how do you expect her to trust you and tell such bad things happening to her when its highly possible she is the one who will get blamed for being treated badly???
     
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  4. thegirlygirl

    thegirlygirl Platinum IL'ite

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    Congratulations on the birth of your daughter!
    I really missed your posts, where were you all this time? :bonk

    You pulled away your PREGNANT wife with such force that she fell on your shoulder???
    You are doubting your wife when she was in the most uncomfortable stage of her pregnancy?

    Honestly Trueloveseek, in this situation I can't help feeling, considering all your previous threads that the fault here is not your wife's or that biker's but only YOURS.

    Sometimes some colleague of yours tries to harass her in a foreign country, sometimes some 'telugu' neighbour, and now some harmless biker on the street.

    Will you please stop continuously doubting this poor lady and give her some much deserved respect??

    I don't mean to sound rude but there is some kind of a mental disease in which a person keeps doubting on people's character, especially that of a spouse......
     
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  5. lucky2

    lucky2 Platinum IL'ite

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    I don't understand if anyone pay him for writing such lengthy posts about his naïve and gullible wife, at times about him and sometimes about his roomates, I'm not sure if she even exists(I mean one such character).

    btw indusladies offeres work from home opportunity for ilites with good oral and writing skills, why not try?
     
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  6. Radhai

    Radhai Platinum IL'ite

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    :hiyaWelcome back, RANDOM CAPS guy with sudden FLASHBACKS...
    may be your WIFE is still NAIVE and GULLIBLE... that's why.
     
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  7. shrutimanjunath

    shrutimanjunath Platinum IL'ite

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    I guess this has happened 2-3 months ago and you are bringing it on your mind now. Pls You forget the past and enjoy time with your new family member. In bangalore such things happen everywhere. I think perverts are also gone bold now. Now that your daughter is 3 m old you can shift to your workplace with your family
     
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  8. Nandshyam

    Nandshyam IL Hall of Fame

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    Nightie... Something one should wear inside a home, preferably in their bedroom.
     
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  9. Radhai

    Radhai Platinum IL'ite

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    hehe.. a towel or dupatta over it transforms it into 'day-tie'laugh1smiley
     
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  10. trueloveseek

    trueloveseek Senior IL'ite

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    Yes , I am moving my Family on June 1 and all is set. I am just looking forward to get back the family here. As some others wrote or guessed, I never go looking into my wife's phone or check it when she is not around. Infact i never felt the need to check her phone. Whenever I try to play with her phone she taunts me like why are you looking so deeply in to my phone. I immediately drop it like a hot potato. She is avid FACEBOOK user and i dont have my account at all. Till now I never felt the need to go into facebook. So she has her space intact.
     

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