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Wife extra marital relation caught - Applying divorce - Need suggestion

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by sumaramesh, Nov 8, 2012.

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  1. vidyamenon

    vidyamenon New IL'ite

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    is it good to ask in an open forum giving your picture and all, people will think that you want to defame your sil......
    dont be angry with me,felt like that!
    dear pranati,liked ur reply!
     
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    Sridevi Bronze IL'ite

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    Her record of phone calls and her recorded voice should be adequate proof and it's also easy to prove that it's her voice only. Hope your brother gets a hastle free divorce...It's also likely that she gets custody of the baby (is she a daughter?), but even if your brother doesn't, it may be for the better and I hope he gets a better married life with someone later on....
     
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    Senthaj New IL'ite

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    Hey regarding the kid, since his mom did all this, poor kid what would he do....try to adopt the kid.

    We cant be sure that such ladies would take care of their kids properly......

    Think twice in the kids issue - rather than going for DNA test.

    Have both parents and send her .....is possible some lawyer...family friends kind of people
     
  4. sumaramesh

    sumaramesh New IL'ite

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    Dear Vidya

    I am not angry, u just expressed your opinion.. I have nothing to defame about my sil..

    If i said shes bad, she wont respect my parents thats different, but EMA is something
    nobody will tolerate, and my BRO is taking actions for that.. Thats it, his life his decision..

    As his sister, i only worry about his future...
     
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    rakinya Platinum IL'ite

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    so sad of the kid.... the girl might have thought about the kid before going into extra marital affair.
     
  6. sumaramesh

    sumaramesh New IL'ite

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    Thanks a lot sridevi..

    Not because he's my brother, but hes very innocent, my younger bro and myself got love marriage.

    But my elder bro dint study much, and very obident to parents and got arranged marriage, unfortunately
    she turned out be dominating and ended up having EMA, so hes broke now..

    My parents and us (me n my dh) are supporting him morally and law and case wise to get rid of this.
    Thanks a lot for your wishes, that he should get hassle free divorce..

    She has agreed in record, and also given written statement in police station that she has affair..
    But my lawyer said, though this things can act as proof, she can always say we hit her and bribed
    police to get her voice and writing saying she had EMA..

    Unfortunately all laws are for women now, so many misuse it, but lawyer said, though she can turn
    case however she wants, since we are righteous, took no dowry, dint hurt her in anyways, there will
    be some loop hole and she will be caught during Case in court..

    Lets see..
     
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    vidyamenon New IL'ite

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    you took it in the right sense,thanks!
    but be careful as it is a matter of court
     
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    sumaramesh New IL'ite

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    Senthaj, i dont get , who should Adopt kid ???? As per law , since its only 2yrs old girl kid, mother gets its custody....

    Yes we all are worried she wont raise kid properly, but cant help...

    Dint get what you meant by this....
     
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    Is there anything left to defame...
     
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    sumaramesh New IL'ite

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    Exactly, in craze of enjoying her life, she spoiled kids future..

    She also agreed, she had love affair and had sex affair with guy in 9th std, and
    wanted to marry him, but her parents dint agree, and got her married to my bro..

    Unfortunate thing here is this EMA is not with her ex-love before marriage, this
    is new guy , her moms neighbour....
     
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