Friends Need your advice. I caught my wife flirting with many men. The first incident I saw with my own eyes in my house. My wife's best friend and her husband came over for dinner. Her husband was dealing with wife so close, freely and comfortably. Their extreme closeness made me upset right there. They both noticed my nervousness and they immediately took step back. I sensed change in their body language and saw fear on faces. My wife was so close to them that she stayed in their house without me. Never thought her friend's husband will come into picture. Later I discovered that she was talking to that man on phone regularly. They talked hours. They texted lot. I read the texts and there is flirting like he sent her funny picture of woman with big breast and my wife applauded it. There are many texts which clearly showed he was hitting on her. I also discovered that she is talking to two of her colleagues for hours and hours daily. They texted like insane. If I am around, she will text. If I am not there, she will talk. There are some calls over 3 hours long. Almost every day, there are 10 to 15 calls. This was going on for two years. My wife still claims "Nothing happened". There is no physical relationship except talk. I do believe it however I strongly believe that she has "Flirted". She took polygraph test and she came out clean for physical relationship. First few months, she played divorce card on me. She was abusive to me, called me very bad names. She threatened me that she will walk away and divorce will ruin me. She never let me talk about that as she felt insulted that I accusing her of nothing. In her mind, she thinks she had no physical relationship and so she did nothing. Now she has changed, regretted, calmed down. She stopped calling them. I am confident she won't do this again. I am still extremely mad. I feel it is utter betrayal. Can't get it out of my head. I felt she behaved cruel and untrustworthy for quite long and even after discovery of her adventure. What do you think? Is she worthy of forgiveness? Or she should be punished!!! Should I divorce her? Now I got courage now to accept my reality and move on if needed.