Why We Love Our Parents And Parents House Much After Marriage

Hi ILites,
I always wonder, what makes us to love our parents and parents house much after marriage....... We are not thinking about parents when we are in school or college........ Not comparing our parents with others there...... But immediately after marriage, each and every action /situation happens, make us to think about our parents.... We are comparing our in-laws with parents, in law's house with our parents house, even maid at in law's house is compared......... Why our soul is with our parents and parents house even though we know our responsibilities after marriage.... Why we can't bare even a single word uttered by Dh or in law's about our parents, siblings, relatives of our side........ Which we wont cared if spoken by others.... ........ Why we always wish to speak about enga veetla (in my home) to our in law's............ Is it because of our traditional brought up or it is in our genes.......... We would have kept many things in secrecy With our parents before marriage, but after, we say even if we sneezes, to them...like a toddler .. Why is it so?........... Is that we are immature or our true love with parents emerges after marriage only........... Pour your thoughts ladies

 

Thank you kcb,
Yes as you said love increases as gap increases..... . We reborn after marriage thats what I think.......