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  1. Apr 18, 2010 #21
    Vidya21

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    Awww... I could send you e-Hugs!!
    Hats off to you for not blowing it out of proportion. :thumbsup
     
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    Spiderman1

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    True, MsTrue.

    But we love our women dearly, neverthless. You just have to believe that even though we dont communicate the same language. Sometimes women or men forget that language difference, and it leads to a meltdown at home.


    Now its not that women understand all the men signals either. There are so many times when DW has missed what I meant to convey. As Malvi said, even the Genie can't figure out women :hiya
    Even Genie can build a bridge for cars or a data bridge for integrated circuits easier.


    Mars and Venus have to trust and co-exist :)
     
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    Spiderman1

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    MsTrue,
    However one thing I'll tell you. You (you as in you mstrue) have phenomenal patience. Hats off to that.

    Imagine making Vada's even in that state of mind. Your DH is one lucky guy. Pull him to the PC, and show him this line from me.
     
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    mstrue

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    Spiderman, That was the only reason I spared my man that fateful 'vada munching' day. :)

    Thanks, Vidya! I did resolve the situation the very next day.
    A gentle email 'in layman terms'. And what a turn around! Well he needs reminders once in a while. But going good. :thumbsup
     
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  5. Apr 18, 2010 #25
    Gooseberry

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    :rotfl:rotfl:rotflMsTrue.....the vadas gone !!!!


    Spider, you are right. Men and women are different. My husband is also like you but I am not that sensitive kind like your wife.

    I HAVE TO LET HIM KNOW THAT VERY MOMENT HOW I FEEL......Kind of woman!!......:)

    So, in our case we do not have this scenario and that is exactly why I suggested :bonk to your wife too.............:rotfl

    Good luck! Glad you sorted it out!!
     
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    mstrue

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    Hi Gooseberry: I too found it kinda-sorta funny when I saw the empty bowl.

    I liked your dad's approach.

    You know, my mom used to tell my dad, "I have a headache"

    Dad: "Oh. Take Asprin"

    Mom would go all mad reason being, she expected validation but dad gave solution.

    All she wanted was, "Oh.. what happened? U had a bad day.." that sort of words.

    But dad will be puzzled, "what more can I do if she has a headache?!"

    And I will be like "PHEW!!! When are they going to stop this rerun?!" :bonk
     
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    Nandshyam

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    Grow up spidey... if a woman asks something... be quiet.. weigh the situation.. she will lead you to what she wants to hear... say it and you won... if you get what I mean ;)
     
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    Spiderman1

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    True Nandhu, I need to grow up. Hmmm...(peru moochu) all part of the learning process :hiya


    PS:
    Yennunga, neenga ponnunga ungalukke answer theriyumna, appuram engala yen kelvi-bathil kaettu rausu panreenga? :coffee Men are so much simpler and straight-forward I tell ya'

    (Translated specially for Gooseberry so she can learn tamil :)
    Why do you conduct Q&A session, if anyway you know the answer yourself)
     
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    Mal, I've published this short story (??) on my FB page.
     
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    Good, you solved the problem Spidey :thumbsup Next time, listen to her problem, feel how she feels....do not solve it! :wink:

    Nangalum simple a irundhita enga presence ungaluku theriyama poidume..... To seek attention, we women employ different strategies and this 'Silent treatment' is one among them. :lol:
     
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