Hi ladies, i am hear to vent my feelings. last week i & my husband planned for road trip around 1800+ KM together in car for 1 week. We are having enough breaks & stays in middle as part of trip we covered my moms house & some of husband relatives and beaches. Kids enjoyed beaches & rides in an amusement park. Everything went well. Trip includes kids. So obviously kids got sick after returning from that long trip. Now my husband showing irritation on me like i am not caring much about immunity of kids, that why they became sick....i am like what sucks, its life after very long trip its usual kids will get tired & sick. thats very normal. on top of it weather changes also reason. He always sayig my earning is lower important than every ones health....that mean if any one got sick at family with their own reasons, i should be the reason because i am not caring their immunity. even himself as well... everything finally it relates to my career this is ine end other end...My brother is unemployed for last 2 months...he is busy with job search & staying in my house. literally i holded him in my house because my educated parents are having very illiterate emotions. they put lot of pressure on my brother for being unemployment..for earning low salary so on...finally what they want is not his happiness, HIS JOB, EARNING IS TOTALLY RELATED TO THEIR PRESTAGIOUS ISSUE AMONG THEIR COLLEGUES. My father had retirement after 3months. he is very depressive because my brother is unemployed & still he is not get selected from 2 months...He said, he may not celebrate his retirement function if my brother dont get employment by that time.....again it sucks me...i am earning best salary... if my brother career failure is reason to stop his function, why not my career success not to be reason for celebrate function...Because i am married, now, my success is not part of my father , again my career is secondary. He openly saying again even after my 10+ yr of career...still my job is optional even though i am earning triple salary then my brother. His salary is always important & life matter to him,Even my mother says same.... No one is around me to feel happy about my career & success in those. every one will utilize, enjoy my salary flavors, luxury so on...but still mine is not much important & no need of respect & optional.