1. Want to get periods immediately before attending a religious event? Check this out for tips...
    Dismiss Notice

Why Dont I Think And Speak

Discussion in 'Health Issues' started by amnilakshmi, Aug 17, 2022.

  1. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    11,640
    Likes Received:
    12,463
    Trophy Points:
    615
    Gender:
    Male
    Dear @amnilakshmi

    Speech is silver but silence is golden so goes an adage.

    But failure to speak in right time with right people at the right moment can be catastrophic. Reticence shouldn’t always lead to or tantamount to acceptance.

    Talkativeness also could be an asset where diverting attention is required. In a share holders meeting, when “big-shots” on the dais gets flummoxed by a serious question about company’s product or services or finances, the question will be passed on to this talkative person. A glib talker though, would address the question like a diplomat telling big NO meaning YES and vice versa.

    With passage of time, you would learn to speak more or less depending on the needs factoring the qualities of your audience.

    In initial days spouse - read wife - speak less and her partner could be a chatter box. After a decade or two, the wife dominates and turns a snake-charmer while husband remain tongue tied.

    Over communication results often in boomerang and one has got to calibrate how much to say and for how long to say and for whom to say. A dil in initial days blurts out about her parents side and with passage of time experience teaches her to say “less” and learns it is safer and better saving bitterness.

    Find methods how to monetize your talkativeness. Don’t consider it is a bad virtue but exercise caution with your utterances. Instead of ordering just suggest!
    Just my two cents!
    Regards. God Bless.
     
    Last edited: Aug 23, 2022

Share This Page