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Why Do We Need Last Name/family Name In Today's World?

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  1. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    We had a classmate in school whose family was from the armed forces. She attended our school and not the one that army families children usually went to. We learnt a lot from her. Her father was one of those visionary kinds. He passed away before she turned 14 (not in the line of duty), but we liked to listen to her talk about him. One thing she told was that her parents didn't believe in passing on last name, so they gave her two names, but it was along the lines of Raj Kumari, Devika Rani, Chitti Babu, Uma Devi, Ram Gopal , Uma Shankar - some identity passed along, but, not an explicit last name.

    On an unrelated note - strikes me as funny whenever a news article thinks it is necessary to mention that a person named in the article "goes by one name" only.
     
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    I'm calling dibs on prime numbers for men!:lol:
     
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    sokanasanah IL Hall of Fame

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    A little correction: Women are XX. Men are XY. Sperm are either X or Y. All eggs are X.
     
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    Ancestry.com has become quite popular in the last few years w.r.t such tests. Unsure if we have something similar in India.

    Certain southern Indian states have people marrying someone with last name. The last name will be mostly caste name. Within the caste they have sub-castes. They cannot marry within the same sub-castes.
     
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    Why it has to be father's or husband's name? - It was a man-made rule in a patriarchal society. We still follow it.
    Recent times have hyphenated surnames emerging or both parents name's first letters as initials of the kid's name.
     
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    A certain movement in 1970's caused people from several Indian states, specifically two northern states to drop using surnames. The movement focused on eradicating corruption by demolishing the use of caste names as surnames to distinguish between upper and lower classes.
    Double names were given based on what age the person was at.
    Babu - for little ones
    Kumar/Kumari - for ones who are yet to get married
    Devi/Raj/Rani/Raja - After marriage
    Taking on family names - After men take over family responsibilities

    Some southern states used the words master/baby for little boys/girls for a time period.
     
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    Thanks for correcting me. I think it was typo.
     
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