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Why did you marry your DH/DW ?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by kriztina, Sep 10, 2014.

Why did you marry your DW/DH

  1. Only to have a kid.

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  2. Companionship.

    5 vote(s)
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  3. No particular reason.

    4 vote(s)
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  4. Love.

    19 vote(s)
    67.9%
  1. kriztina

    kriztina Bronze IL'ite

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    1. Only to have a kid.
    2.Companionship
    3.No particular reason
    4.Love
     
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  2. Lavanya30

    Lavanya30 Silver IL'ite

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    I married my husband, because I love him and for companionship :) :) :)
    of course we have 2 year little fellow..............
     
  3. anika987

    anika987 IL Hall of Fame

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    None of the above initially but after sometime I fell into the fourth category..

    Let me the take the liberty to explain..

    I married him coz I felt a great comfort level with him day one and he has a very kind face. Also, he was very matured, respectful to others and very very down to earth.
    I can keep going on..he is still the same person and he bores me his famous dialogue which he keeps repeating everyday...

    "No matter how anyone behaves with you, you should always be the good person. character is very important. people will not remember about how pretty you looked when you were long gone but how good a person you were"
    How can I not help but love him:))
     
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    DKI Platinum IL'ite

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    When I first said yes - not to him, but in general to getting married was to get my mother off my back about marrying.

    My husband in particular (arranged, yet had a lot of opposition from everybody except parents)
    1) He was tall - I am tall and love wearing heels :)
    2) He had a plan for life - not one of those guys who had no clue what he wanted to do
    3) He was not perfect. And he knew he was not perfect.
    4) He was based in India (actually one of my main criterias even though we ended up leaving the country!)
     
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    Radhai Platinum IL'ite

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    just curious: :) How were you able to narrow down the options to just 4!
     
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    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    He was super (is ) cute
    He wore a uniform.
     
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    Akanksha1982 IL Hall of Fame

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    Same education as me, good looking and everyone in the family said yes.
    over the years discovered him to be intelligent, caring and above all since I am the hot fuse, his being calmer helps.
     
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  8. kriztina

    kriztina Bronze IL'ite

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    Good question Radhai, All other reasons belong to No Particular reason. I could come up with only 4 options on the fly . friendssmileyWell thanks IL folks for taking time and answering my poll. The reason behind this poll was just 2 days back my DH told he married me just to have a kid! Yeah having kids is most important factor in a marriage but that being the sole reason din't actually go well with me. Nevertheless we have a 3 year old cute LO :). That made me post this poll.
     
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    kriztina Bronze IL'ite

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    Okay guess I made it bit confusing Companionship obviously means kid is also involved. Don't get me wrong. After all I am Pure indian Hindu if it matters.
     
  10. Roar

    Roar Gold IL'ite

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    Arranged marriages wont have a solid reason for marriage.

    But I remember when he came to see me he said "will you please stand beside me?"...and when I did, he said "I think we both look great!" and he looked at his parents and sister and said "you people better say yes..hahah"... none other boys had so much positive energy.

    And I am not wrong till date. Thank God!
     
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