I always feel why the bride should only go to the groom's home leaving her parents behind. Are they not loving parents who brought up the little angel to see live happily.Is it only the parents of boys having the right to live with them.I still do not understand how this set up came in society and practiced over years without even consulting the girl. Okay they take the girl to the house Is she given the treatment that she deserves? In most cases her own parents themselves become different and they need to love their parents within. Yes like the divine dwell within and how much ever we search outside we cannot find. The same way the girls love lives within and cannot show outside.Why? Why is it the boy given a royal treatment in the girls home and they feel uncomfortable in the inlaws home but expect the girls to adopt the inlaws as own parents? Earlier the men were working and the women were dependant but today it is different. I totally disagree this system and both the parents should be loved and adopted by both the girl and the boy and care given as per the need without any comparison. Let us discuss and try to respect the parenthood whether they gave birth to boy or girl.