I think the parents should be left out of this blame game - if we were to keep an account of all the rights and wrongs we do, I am sure we all have a huge list. Life runs a lot on emotions, pride and what not even if a lot of planning is done. I think they have done their best in ways they thought with in the circumstances they were in, for both the daughters. No point pitting or offering opinions about who is right or wrong by anyone - it will only lead to more bitter feelings. If anything, someone should knock some sense into both the daughters. The elder one for having a good life, looking at her parents' position should offer some help for all the good things that have happened to her (instead of demanding more) and with a sense of gratitude - to be able to give back some at least in times of need. The younger one should without a fuss take what's coming her way, not in submission but with a sense of gratitude and pride that in times of need, the family could come together. and she seems like she is also getting into 'not a greedy family'. Both the daughters should be aware that not the same things will happen to them any which way and what will matter is how supportive they are of one another when the other feels slighted. How incredible would it be to show that two sisters pulled this together well and came out stronger? Hope things workout for this young girl starting a new phase in life with positive energy.