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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Neetu2323, Apr 16, 2018.

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  1. Rosey2018

    Rosey2018 Bronze IL'ite

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    In relation to the first paragraph these were mere statements that she was informing us of.

    Second paragraph sometimes things like that are fate you’re not going to find a perfect husband no matter how hard you try. She is working and why is it a problem if people get married as young as 21. Maybe it’s right for them at the time.
     
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    You seem stressed. All this does take a toll on your body and mind. Go to the doctors and tell her/him you’re stressed and if you have low mood swings tell them that too. Whatever medication she gives you take that and also take vitamins. It will take time for you to heal. Believe me this is common. In laws and Especially MILs who are jealous or not satisfied with life behave this way. Husbands don’t do anything because they’re scared they’ll be disowned and treated like dirt or simply don’t want to get involved. So don’t tell him. Just hint here and there. From now on talk less with your MIl till u get back on ur feet give her short answers. Your husband will change slowly once he has a child. Men are not independent or mature..,it takes time once they become husbands, fathers etc. MIL is not your mother... she’ll even boast her poop is gold so much until u believe it.
     
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    Since OP is afraid of her real life relatives finding her identity and affecting her relationships, @Induslady can you please do the needful, hide all her posts or delete this thread, so she can get a new ID?
     
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    Shanvy IL Hall of Fame

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    edit window has a time duration. according to forum faqs the mods and admins can only delete post if and only if they feel the need to

    new members definitely need to read the forum etiquettes and details before starting to post.
    the enthusiasm to participate should not overshadow the effects of the post. there is no anon in any social networks. the dots get connected. do not share details that you will not feel comfortable aharing in public
     
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    You have 2 options .You can request to close the thread. Good thing is it will never be bumped by new posters. But this information will be available forever in IL or google. Long time back they even had policy for name change. I'm not sure if it is still there ask them if it is still available you can try that . Hopefully someone will help you soon
     
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