As the title suggest who else are dealing with a narcissistic spouse. In my cas Though he does not have any diagnosis but he matches with most of the traits.. threats .. blame game .. grouping against.. gaslighting..trying to cornering .. mainting a good public image.. can’t take criticism.. superiority complex. Initially It was all confusing why does he has so many shades .. he was super good to me until I followed his wishes . Afterwards there are many stories. 2 days back he threatened me for divorce because I am. It taking sh** from his family.. yes he did it many times.. and I was like let’s go ahead and this will be the best decision we are taking together.. and you know what he got into his senses working 1 hr with a completely softer tone and wanted to talk. He has endless blames for me .. and I found the best strategy is a blame for a blame.