Who else have higher sex drive that their husband?

It is rare to have two people with the same sex drive dear.Talk it out....find a middle ground. Check with him what kind of stuff he finds irresistible. Use it to your advantage on his off days......let the lucky rascal realize how lucky he is.Just remember...the ones who want it more usually have to put in more effort.....;-)That is the unwritten rule .....not about gender.
As for us...pretty well matched.

 

GoodGirl, this is not an uncommon thing at all. In fact i was talking about the exact same situation with my boyfriend just a couple of nights ago. I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of 5 months and we have been together for only couple of times and the physical intimacy between us is really good. But, i have observed that he never initiates things, you know...let be it in person or on phone. I have also noticed that once i initiate things, he gets into the mood and things turn pretty intense between us and i can feel/see that passion and fire in him. The only catch is that i have to take the initiative . I have asked him about this directly and i said i feel very odd to be the aggressive person. His reply was a bit complicated though i could understand what he wanted to say. He says that keeping me happy is his entire goal and he wants to make sure he doesn't hurt me. He claims he don't know what might be going on with me and don't want to approaches me when i might not be in the mood. Now how will he know if i am in the mood or not if he even does not try to know :idontgetit:. We still need to talk about it, a lot.

Anyways coming back to your problem, do you have anything else going on in your lives? Is there any pressure of any kind at home? A few men cannot just get turned on sexually when there are other things bothering him. How are things at his work? This is one thing to check for sure, a guy cannot think about sex when he has problems at work. Did you take time to talk to him about your needs, i feel communication is extremely important in when dealing with these kind of problems. Lastly, please never think that you are wrong in having a higher libido compared to your partner. It is quite common and as yellowmango already told, you just need to find a middle ground. Hope things get better for you, good luck

 

Wow!!! Applause due you. Dont feel being aggressive/ initiating makes us the pursuer(?).even so, whats wrong?? Most of us do reach for, at one or the other day, its very common(again, this is mostly inferred from my limited conv with friends and voracious reading on every possible subject). Did you get married recently? I have heard a few complaining of the lack of it around ten years into marriage!! H simply not interested. Atleast you guys are lucky!
Also, women subtly initiate it by being a little flirtatious, dressing up in s**y lingeries for their guys etc.. Why do you think we do this? (I am strictly talking about the marital bed..I dont mean dressing up in general).

 

You have ignited the fire too early. Today is not yet Friday. I can see how aggressive you are :thumbsup

Few men try to act more passive in the act if its going well(by the other party).
But if He once feel manly in that aggressive battle field.. it would become the bloody war(still okay). So, it looks like your husband is acting passive OR feeling low. A real man never stop fighting. Even if there is no war also, he creates one to win

 

in the beginning of marriage, i had lot of energy and we used to do some times 6 times a day and it was wonderful at those times, it wont return however after 1st child energy split in the way of looking after kids and my husband is a sex freak and he asks me daily but i have less energy for it and denies some times, it may trigger fight between us and now having 2 kids, 2-1/2 and 1-1/2 years with office working too you can understand how to allot time for se* and we used to have fights because he always have a drive for daily and i like to 2-3 times a week now. commitments and stress would decide about this. my husband usually does no work at home apart from going to office and obviously he used to have more energy. so enjoy for the present time

 

hehe.. those guys at the NSA would be having a tough time writing all those!

 

You pair are not alone...