Hello everybody, We generally hear from people saying, "I am a very frank person, I just talk face to face whatever I feel." Is this type of conversation is really good? May be you are relieved from your mental agonies for sometime. But that doesn't give any sort of good identity to you in the long run. I have been observing people who talk with patience win hearts. I feel we must control our words when we face accusations though we are correct. When we live as a family, it is better we practice gentle speech implying others in a very polite manner that what they are doing is wrong. I am learning this art and also realized very recently that my own father has been practicing it.