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Whether We Like Or Not

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Jun 7, 2019.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    All the best things in life are not meant to last. Things really change and so do people. You can never hold on to something forever. So, whether we like it or not, we must have to accept things as possible. In short, 'learn to live and to let go.'

    Whether we like it or not we have to do some things. We have to go to school to be well educated and earn a living after we grow up . Now a days education has become a must , even girls should be well educated guys need working woman

    Woman have to cook everyday whether they like it or not , they have no retirement from kitchen , though some get retirement after the dil comes but still they dont like to give up cooking . They want to cook for their family.

    Whether they like it or not workers have to go for construction work that too in the hot sun. We can tdo without fan , after going out immediatley we come home and sit under the fan. But the whole day they have to work as that is their living

    Sometimes our greatest blessing are the prayers god doesn't answer because he knows thats not whats best for us whether we like it or not.

    Sometimes you have to through a phase whether you like it or not
    Death is a part of all our lives. Whether we like it or not, it is bound to happen. Instead of avoiding thinking about it, it is better to understand its meaning. We all have the same body, the same human flesh, and therefore we will all die. There is a big difference, of course, between natural death and accidental death, but basically death will come sooner or later. If from the beginning your attitude is 'Yes, death is part of our lives,' then it may be easier to face.
     
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  2. Amulet

    Amulet Platinum IL'ite

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    This is a good thought. And deserves a revisit.:thumbsup:
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    never mind the dil. Women like to innovate in the kitchen; adapt new things, and see whether it is appreciated at home. I remember the issue with Milagoottal, and whether or not you can make it as good as someone else can ;)
    Small joys and achievements are for the Now. Death can wait.
     
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    Very good write up Aunty. Sweet way of conveying that we should accept life as it comes. Enjoyed reading it :) We tend to forget some simple principles in life. This is like a reminder for the same.
     
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    Dear Vijiakka,

    My view on how things to be done in life is to love every single activity with devotion and commitment. For me doing something without liking it is not an option. Yes. It is hard to understand this concept at a very early age but as we grow, we begin to understand doing things with keen interest makes the entire life like a walk in the flower garden. It develops the habit of being in the present moment always with concentration on one thing that we do at a time.
     
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    My dear Viji
    So true! What we have as constituents of our body today are not the same that existed decades back. The body of our youth is dead and gone. There are about 3×1013 red blood cells to infer that about 100 million new red blood cells are being formed in our body every minute! Replacement of our cells also occurs in most of the other tissues in our body on a very regular basis.
    Let go is easier said than done. I have seen in posh restaurants the customers make hue and cry if there is a little change in what they have ordered. Surprisingly these people are so accommodating at home!
    Yes. I was just reading about the well-known hangmen of India. I have read about guys who beheaded queen like Anne Boleyn (Mother of Elisabeth I, Marie Antoinette and her husband Louis the XVI
    What makes human life so interesting is the death. That a mystery we will never be able to solve. And that makes life interesting.
    A really thought-provoking thread, Viji
    Sri
     
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    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

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    :hello:Luckily we are not created with our expiry date on our scalp!
    God bless.
     
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    :hello:When death comes on its own accord there is no question of one facing it. With closed eyes one prefer to chant and soul quietly departs through one of nine outlets of the body.
    Thanks and Regards.
     
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    Life is a journey to be enjoyed. It is not a destination. Said some one.
    Regards.
     
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    Thanks for the first feedback. What is the issue about milagootal. Death can wait. But we can't decide. God has already written about it.
     
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    Thanks for expressing your views
     

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