Whether my DW loves me ?

rachaputi · Dec 24, 2013

Dear, pls just go through all his threads..

thegirlygirl · Dec 24, 2013

rachaputi said: ↑

Dear, pls just go through all his threads..
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And the deleted ones, to which now we sadly have no access.....

Akanksha1982 · Dec 25, 2013

trueloveseek said: ↑

If I give a small comment that the food is missing something [this or that ingredient is less or more ] then I can't see her face. She will take it as though she lost a battle. I don't know whether the battle was with me or with that poor food. So instead of being forced to see her lost face I prefer to tell that Food is good or eat it without comments. This strategy has worked for me because i have one more less issue to ponder about. And I am always afraid to see her long face[difficult to put in words her expressions :bonk]. So I ignore the food side and see the positives only. But really speaking she is a good cook overall and may be 10% of the time she might have missed something horribly.
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Just taste the food while it is still being cooked and give your opinion then and not after it is served.

Hey 10% of the time bad food, that is much better than most restaurants and you are complaining?

Nandshyam · Dec 25, 2013

She cooks u at a drop of a hat and then her cooking is bad.
she is polite, but she is nagging

Man, guess it's time for u to introspect, look within?

RedRuby · Dec 26, 2013

Thanks for giving more insight in the wishes, hopes and dislikes of a hubby, was quite interesting and usefull to read. The cooking issue btw confused me a bit too.
Never new gifts are so important for hubbies too :idea :goodidea:

satchitananda · Dec 26, 2013

trueloveseek said: ↑

Cooks whatever i want to eat at short notice[i like this very much]

Never cooks great food. always careless while cooking. And I think I married expecting some great cooking will happen in my home. But she has failed me here[occasionally she cooks great food but it is like once in a while only]. Even now she does not taste what she cooks and when I eat I just pretend that I am happy, But inside my mind I hate the food.

If I give a small comment that the food is missing something [this or that ingredient is less or more ] then I can't see her face. She will take it as though she lost a battle. I don't know whether the battle was with me or with that poor food. So instead of being forced to see her lost face I prefer to tell that Food is good or eat it without comments.

Never appreciated me in front of my in-laws. But gives respect to me as a person who has to be respected when she talks to her parents.[she lost her mom just last year. I had a wonderful relationship with her and I miss her very much now ]

When I lost my job 3 years back due to my ego clashes at office, she tom tom my failure to all her side family members.
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trueloveseek said: ↑

This strategy has worked for me because i have one more less issue to ponder about. And I am always afraid to see her long face[difficult to put in words her expressions :bonk]. So I ignore the food side and see the positives only. But really speaking she is a good cook overall and may be 10% of the time she might have missed something horribly.
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Is it only I who am seeing so many contradictions, or am I misunderstanding, or is the OP confused or is this a post for the weekend?

englishtutorjul · Dec 26, 2013

Not sure about your wife, but you cook(in this case,stories) really well.Went through your other threads...

thegirlygirl · Dec 26, 2013

satchitananda said: ↑

Is it only I who am seeing so many contradictions, or am I misunderstanding, or is the OP confused or is this a post for the weekend?
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LOLLZZZ.....'TRUELOVESEEK LIKES THIS' just proves what you are saying

heron · Dec 26, 2013

I suggest to ask your DW if she loves you coz you just core-confused me with your post.

trueloveseek · Dec 26, 2013

Dear Satchi,

Glad you found out that i am really confused DH as of now.:bowdown May be that is the reason I am not able to find a single real fault to vent on my Dear WIFE.

She has pointed to me lots of my weak points in the last 10 years of our roller coaster ride and I have noted them keeping aside the ego thing[very difficult for men but not impossible]. I am enjoying this ride and looking forward to grow old with her.

I feel she is smarter than me in many aspects of life like money matters, kid matters, handling MIL etc and i am happy to mention that we just celebrated our 10th MARRIAGE ANNIVERSARY this December 8th.:exactly:

I cannot believe myself that I have spent a decade with my Dear Wife. Everyday I just look forward to just be with her. Frankly Satchi she is gem of a person and I am really very lucky to be married to her.
I am sure if she is on this forum she might write 2 pages of venting on me:hide:.

After being on this forum I am trying to be a better DH. Again thanks for taking time to respond to my very old thread.