I am sorry if my thread sounded with such a word. All I wanted to convey was she knows the + and - of a career woman and she is the one who decided to be SAHM. I still do as much household work as much as I can and make her feel that I am trying to help her. Well latest update is now she is carrying with our second one. So I am now very happy and we are preparing for the arrival of our second kid. Again thank you for your post but I disagree here.