Whether i should live or die?

Dear ,

I don't understand one thing.First thing stop giving your salary.Wethre he borrows money from his friends or not ,it's his problem .Why do you have to repay his loand.There is some confusion for me here.If he don't explain what he is doing money then why do you have to take responsability for his debts.Save your salary and run the family and see what he will do without your help.Don't argue with him for the money but at the same time don't give your salary too.It's there problem.If he raises hand again tell him that you would complain to police.
If they are rich ,I don't know why they are pulling from your husband.If they wanted construct some building then you don't involve your money with your husband,Leave them alome and I am sure your husband will learn a lesson.

I really don't know why do you think you need take responsability for your husband debits.It's totally wrong on your side.May be because of this attitude you might left your jewels with your in-laws.It's not there problme.It's totally your problem.With out knowing about them fully how can you handover total money to your husband and in-laws.It's just your foolishness.Sorry for being rude.Please wake up and act smart.

 

hey,

very sorry to read what you are undergoing. IS dying in your own hands? what if in the attempt of dying, you don't die and are left crippled? will life be better then?

You have a little one whom you are one of the 2 parties to bring in this world. Don't you have any responsibility for him? How can you even think of it?

You are doing a job. You must find a way out. Why should you bear this physical and mental torture? I am sure you must have tried all ways before writing in this forum. But make yourself strong and think of the little one before deciding anything as wrong.

Act wisely, you have no right to kill yourself and also have a responsibility for your little one. So find a way to solve it, it may be difficult, but please do not run away from the problems leaving your dear ones like parents and son grieving.

May you get the strength to solve this real big problem.

 

Dear Meha.
My dear friend......... don't even spell the word Suicide. You are blessed with a lovely boy child . you are well educated and working women. First stop giving your money to your hubby. Be bold dear. Have a bold talk with your Hubby and IN-Laws also. The place you are standing is not the end but its just a starting point for your new life. Don't hesitate to take help from your close relatives.

I am sending you loads of positive energy dear. If needed you please take counseling. Please think about your's and your lovely DS's future.

Have read all the nice FB's you got...please keep this in mind that our hearty prayer will be there for you forever.

Please come to AA dear. You may feel better.
Don's worry ...All is well
My hugs and love for you dear.

 

Where does your Mom live.I think you need to take a break and go to your mom and live for there sometime.See your husband can relaise something out of him and don't worry about his debts.You know always people who are wealthy have more issues than people with no waelth.
Take a break from this relation and stay quite for sometime and it;s good for you and your baby too and think though.,
few questions:
If you rejected then what is rush to get married in 15 days and what is the rush to get kids so soon without understanding yoru husband.
Do you make more fuss at home?Be calm and handle the things and just stop giving money and no arguments and no more fuss at home.Show in actions and not in words.