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When you and your spouse fight, do you hit eachother?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by lahoreny, Mar 14, 2013.

  1. nicegirlradhi

    nicegirlradhi Gold IL'ite

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    i have ordered an AK 47:hide:
     
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    Ragini25 Platinum IL'ite

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    LOL! Shoot at sight orders :)
     
  3. justanothergirl

    justanothergirl IL Hall of Fame

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    Totally
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    uma321 Platinum IL'ite

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    Honey,

    This is abnormal. No one has the right to hit another person. It's a big NO NO.
     
  5. prettydevil

    prettydevil Platinum IL'ite

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    in fun, :yes:......... else, NO tsk :notthatway:
     
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  6. happyness

    happyness Bronze IL'ite

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    My DH never hit me but i did.
    When I was in 8th week of my pregnancy, I got this urge to fight (physical fight) and I fought with my DH. He was just laughing at my facial expressions (I was seriously involved) and tried to protect himself. I felt silly after few min and stopped it. I felt good after it. Two days later, I was sleeping and my DH got a page. Apparently I got up and scolded him and gave two slaps on his back. He did not know what is going on and just held me and I fell asleep. I did not remember it the next day. I was a little bit violent the whole week. :)

    On a serious note, physical or emotional abuse is NO, NO in any relationship.
     
  7. Dinny

    Dinny IL Hall of Fame

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    Never yaar
    Actually hes a well built person and i have a delicate structure ...if he ever hits me then i dont think i will survive that blow lol
    My grandma once told me (after my engagement )that never let your arguments turn so ugly that he has to raise his hand on you...because once you let him do that he will repeat it often.
    And i have followed her instructions :)
     
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  8. lahoreny

    lahoreny Senior IL'ite

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    Very informative responses.
     
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    GodIsOne Gold IL'ite

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    Nope...we don't even yell at each other. We have a 4 yr old. One of us move away when something boils up.
     
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    lahoreny Senior IL'ite

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    Godisone, I replied to your message, but it says your inbox has reached max, please me know if there is a easier or better way to communicate with you.
     

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