Hi Ladies, I was born and brought up in Chennai, India. After marriage i was in Botswana for 6 years and now i am in dubai. So i dont know how long are we going to stay here. We need lot of savings for our future, child's education, future, their marriage, parents health and other expenses. It is the same for everyone. So the need never ends, so iam really confused. My daughter was born in african country and now here. I fear that she will not have the same sentiments, emotions, culture, fear that we have as indian ladies. So when is the right time to go back? Some people said in botswana that you can be here till the kids are in 7 or 8 th standard then you should go back to india bcos education in india is anytime better. But here in Dubai you have all kinds of university and educational institution. But you can never bcom a citizen here. So ladies who have been here for long, Can you tell me how do you feel here? How long are you going to stay? What you feel is the right time to go back to India? Or Should we never go back and instead bring our family here? Have you ever felt that if we were in india,may be my kid will be like thiss.... My hubby always says that i think too much about future and iam forgeting that i have to enjoy the present. Is it wrong to think about future?