When is the right time to have kids? We have been married for 21/2 years .My husband is good and loving person. When we first married we came to the decision and wanted to plan for kids after 3 years. He explained me every thing why he wants to wait for 3 years and so..I said ok because even i have to settle down here and want to be independent…. Last few days back I asked him to come to decision to have kids…then he said the same previous story and wants to wait until another year… What you guys do in this situation?