Thanks dear.. Yeah I was wondering why some got offended and kinda started advocating like their decision of going to job is best and Sahm is foolish thing to do... I Even re-read my post to check if I have advocated Sahm role n put down going work No I don't.. I was just trying to find women's plans of retirement.. Some went on to tell I am not clear in my decision and I will and should change my decision.. Where I had not even asked if my decision is correct?? Thing is I had seen so many examples around me deciding to quit professional roles after marriage, after having kids and some badly wanted to quit but waited till finish emi commitment and quit in 40s.. I don't know, but I didn't come across anyone who worked till 60's.. I think my mil is the longest working example I saw who worked as college lecturer till 55 then took vrs. My sil mom took vrs at 50 from bsnl. Recently I was telling my decision of not working Anymore with my mom and also link in my first post triggered question..