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What's Your Hubby's Reaction To A Messy Home?

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    SadMarried Silver IL'ite

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    He doesnt mind or care about the mess and he doesnt clean it either. HE will clean if i push him and if he is mood to listen to me.

    I , on the other hand, cant stand mess , i clear it all myself as much as i can .
     
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    We're used to our mess. Visitors can like it or lump it.

    There was a time, pre Internet :facepalm:, when our home used to sparkle and we would proudly entertain unscheduled visitors.

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    What.... there was a world without the internet? :-o
     
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    husband would immediately clean it .he just cant stand it so most of the time it wud be 90% ok except my room which is messy ,my idea of cleanliness is different wht to do i want washed clothes clean floor and no food waste that is a strict no-no.but arranging plates ,folding clothes ,correct lid in vessels ,innovative ideas for arranging in all that iam big zero but my hubby is excellent he shows me different ideas to make my work easy also he is not that lazy
     
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    Big hungama.He starts cleaning home with a long face. But he has to put up that long face most of the time
     
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    For us, he never minds messy house. A whole box or hamper will be totally invisible to him as he walks around. It never occurs to him that it has to be moved. Luckily we have hardwood floors and anything on it becomes visible. So, he will take the broom and clean it if he sees it. For everything else, nothing occurs to him unless told. On the other end, I am too picky and spend a lot of time cleaning and organizing. To give him credit, in his totally disorganized world, he can surprisingly find anything faster.
     
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    You are sooooooooooooooooooo lucky!!! :)
     
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    awww ! touch wood :)
     
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    actually u know what before marriage husband was 'considered' lazy and did not keep his room tidy etc as per their standards usually sil cleans it .so,they all thought after marriage his life wud be better :) but now he is the better person .......now iam learning few thing few tips from what i observe him dont keep pending works earlier washing plates was a chore now we immediately after eating just l;ike washing hands we chat and wash the corresponding plates this really helps
     
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    I can't stand mess...neither can my DH. I can be without food..but can't sleep if any room is messy. My DH likes to have it clean ..but not obsessed..
    After DD was born.. i have let it go. I can't clean her mess daily.. DH has become like me. He arranges DD's toys before hits the bed. Rest of the room looks tidy all the time.
     
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