What's Your Hubby's Reaction To A Messy Home?

We're the kind of house that has to clean for the cleaners We used to have cleaners come in every 2 weeks... but that was too much work for us... so now we have laundry help weekly and rest of the house cleaners every month. And we STILL don't qualify as a tidy house

 

ayyo @peartree same pinch. Whenever I see a google auto car on the road I think .."people...why don't u come up with auto-folder " ?.

 

Our house is always messy ..our toddler being main reason. But other than kid, we blame each other for messiness. Something I do not like that he does and he does not like my actions. He usually cleans / vaccums while accusing everyone, I appreciate but I also hate that he packs everything together and put away (small things on counter ) and I can never find then.

 

Keeping the house organized is always a bit of a problem...we both being hoarders.Of course we both hoard separate things and find each others hoards 'unreasonable'.We got together and gave birth to two more hoarders......so our house is a chaos hidden in boxes and cupboards and drawers .

When we got married...I got a few lectures from Mr YM on my house keeping skills ...but he soon gave up and joined me in my chaos.

As long as the boxes ,drawers and the cupboards are closed ...we are fine.

 

I am pretty certain the only reason you brought this up was to rile me and JAG up with envy

Ohh.. the house tour! My husband springs that on me/the guests sometimes. The guests themselves wouldn't be expecting it, but he... being the person he is would offer a house tour. I won't get why, though... it's not like they can actually see how nice the rooms in the house are, because the rooms are usually filled with the stuff we put away from the living room for receive those guests!!

 

Since ours is an arranged marriage...I used to always wonder if we would have ever fallen in love and married if we did not meet in an 'arranged ' way.

So one day I asked my husband if he would have fallen for me and married me if we had met ourselves....he said"yes"......pause pause pause..."but not if I had seen the inside of your cupboards."

 

I usually keep the things in place. But my DD and DH both are
just on the other side which makes me yelly. Still DH always has his
ears closed whenever I say to organize his things. But vaccum cleaning-
he does regularly. Not bad right!

 

Oh! The power one feels when there is something to hold over the BH's head... priceless.

Same pinch with the guests situation. Ensure everything is outwardly tidy but don't go OTT anymore with fresh, colour coordinated towels displayed in bathroom for guests who visit for an hour...

 

We have buzzing bee that keeps our house, tidy and it is not me.