My husbands brother and his family are visiting us in next 2 weeks. Thier son is of my sons age. They plan to take a trip South , as my co-sisters cousin stays there and they also want to explore that place. I have just joined this workplace newly and hence cannot take leave. My husband and my son will go with them. On previous occasions it has so happened that whenever my husband visits any of my side of my family she expresses her dislike and doesnt want my husband to mingle. But she happened to have no problem with my husband staying in my co-sisters side of the family. I am no comfortable with this as i feel she is being biased. Hence, I was telling my husband to go with them and stay in a hotel with my son, as my mil has a problem with my husband mingling with my side, though am his wife, then how come u can stay there? What would you do in my place? Please do not talk ill about me, as I have been in a very abusive marriage, so I am not willing to be the bad person here. But I just need an opinion on what other women would do if they were in my place?