Hello Friends, Here's a dilemma that I need your inputs on. Suppose an Indian couple (H&W) who live in the US decide to go to India for visiting the parents. There are 2 options to go to India: 1. One at a time when the H's sister (also from US) is visiting parents OR 2. Another time when just H's parents are there (SIL is not there or has left) Now, W and the SIL do not get along due to a past visit by SIL to brother's house gone terribly wrong. While the W wishes to visit when the SIL is present, she is extremely anxious about the potential visit as things may go wrong again at in laws place due to SIL being present, if the in laws side do not treat W well or bring up any past episodes or just plainly neglect her. What if things go wrong again? So, W is leaning towards the option of visiting in laws in India at other time when SIL is not there. This would a safe option. Also, it would be a great opportunity to spend one on one time with in laws without they being influenced by SIL. But, only down side to this is H and their daughter does not get to see his sister simultaneously along with his parents. To be clear, H is completely fine with this option & visiting his parents when his sister is not around, only W overthinks about this scenario & feels bad about it. What would you do / recommend in this situation?