What Would You Do?

In a general context it is good if children settled abroad visit parents in India at different times. So that by spreading out the visits , the parents will be less lonely . Instead of everyone coming at once for 2 weeks , overwhelming the parents and then leaving them to be all alone for rest of the year
So looking at the biggest picture , your friend should spread out the visits , and will also serve her cause to spend quality bonding time with her in-laws . I have noticed when there are too many people then all time and focus goes in cooking for so many people and bad sleeping arrangements due to lack of space , just a chaos all around and no quality time .
Meeting sister is important but well being of parents is more important ., And first duty is towards parents . Hopefully my perspective can help your friend in some way .

 

From the SIL n W pov n with this history, I would maybe coincide just a day or two of overlap if I 'desire' for the 'whole family' to be together.

If no such desire then don't bother making it difficult for yourself.

Anyway H's sis lives in the same country, they can plan a short trip anytime they want.

Plus the parents would not feel overwhelmed n they can spend some quality time together with each of their kids families separately.

 

Its tricky. Easy way would be for family to visit when sil is not there

 

Naari to Wanita! Why did you have to slough your skin? This is off the topic, but just curious!

 

Ha ha Anita! Actually, I was incommunicado due to personal reasons for more than a month. That's why I missed all the action. But, I get it now. I feel sorry to see you banned!

Pray tell me who is the other guy or gal who is like me, because I thought I was unique! Who can match my panache and crooked sense of humour?

 

My guess is green

 

No way, Miss Holmes!

 

No way, Mrs Sunshine. Your detective skills need honing.
I am unique. I come from more humble background, so like to read @Iravati’s vivacious posts to traverse to different world but I would not indulge in indirect referencing her ever. I prefer straight forwardness than crafty slyness.

I don’t see the point in taking multiple IDs in anonymous forums unless their original ID’s login is disabled.

 

I hate to repeat but Tam is not my twin brother. I have just one ID here. I already shared my disgust in having multiple IDs by the same person.

How did I end up here. My post count yesterday didn’t go up when I posted in Y & R. Then I saw the same for you in your post count which led me to this thread.

If you are good in analyzing writing pattern, you would not have erroneously judged. I had correctly guessed Okonomi and Nonya are same person by reading just few posts.