Hello Sometimes I don’t understand what’s happening around me . My brothers wedding had fixed and due to corona got postponed . Girls side were called rich ( land robbers which we didn’t know ) , girl was avg looking . We thought good family since they were far relatives also . Engagement done and marriage got postponed due to covid .. girls mother and sister are very strong character whom we never seen such character and the whole family also . They were so stubborn . We were neglecting their characters and moving on . My mother is a single women , they didn’t respect my mom at all . We ignored it later we wanted marriage to done in good way . They were not responding to what they agreed . We asked and they got angry and came home with big gang and scolded my mom , sister and brother ( I live abroad ) like anything . My mom got scared about bringing the girl from such a family . ( later people said they are very regular to police stations and not good people ) We said let’s cancel the wedding , the girl started calling my brother and me . We said we are looking for a girl from good family not like this . And later they filed police complaint on our fmaily and arrested my brother . That period is the sad period for us .they bribed all the police men there , and police man said that fmaily very regular attendants here he received many complaint before from the people he cheated False promising of land . our relatives mourned for us the way it happened for bo fault from us , they gave so many problems . fast forward 2 months , the same girl married to my husband’s uncle sister son . Which I am unable to take it . My husband never liked my family . His uncle is like shakuni ( more than that ) never seen such a character in my life so far . He used to hate my brother and my fmaily . He had cheated us also and got married my husband to me . I am unable to digest how unethical or immoral act his uncle did . I was just analysing , for them if it’s a girl be smart find a guy ( love marriage ) , if it’s a boy , love and get experienced with girls , finally get married to whomever we say . It happened the same with my husband. he was in love with a girl , never liked me , they ( his whole fmaily - major decision makers are his uncle and aunt ) used all the tricks and opportunity to fix with us . Only to realise later that they got married to me because we are rich and earn good pay . They tortured me , I accepted it . Later I confronted them , they started hating me . I am sure his uncle used the opportunity to get that girl for his sisters being so unethical , without realising how it affects my relationship with my husband . my husband didn’t say about their wedding untill it happened . And he says that guy messaged me called me for wedding and so his parents . my mother cried when she had invited for wedding since we could not attend. I am feeling very bad , thinking people are ready to do anything for money .