Hi friends, what do you do when husband wants to be a perfect son to his parents, and doesn't care about being a perfect husband or perfect father to his wife or to his son? My relationship with his parents had never been great. His parents leave not a single occasion, to take him through a guilt trip, and tell him that we did this much for you and we did that much for you and you don't do anything for us, you talk to us like that or your wife doesn't respect us, your wife doesn't respect you, etc. They still treat him like a child. if anything goes wrong tells him, "we told you so", "you didn't listen to us, now what can you do", etc, etc, even for small things. Not that they had a very good relationship before i came into picture. But as they say blood is thicker than water, so now they all have teamed up and whatever happens the blame comes to me. So i have stopped bothering about what they say, and do what i feel is right for me and my son. i feel H is worried sick that he is unable to be a good son to his parents and that is because of me. he wants to be good in their eyes, just like a small child(he is 36 now). always looking for their approval. And as they do not approve of me, he thinks its all because of me, that they are sad and hurt and as a result he is unhappy. what do you do in this kind of scenario??