A month back when I was speaking to DH’s cousin got know that my Cosister is conceived with her second baby. my in-laws started telling to everyone after 5th month. Till today neither DH or me heard anything directly from inlaws or bil or cosis. I thought it slipped from their mind, they might have thought they already informed the news to me. I thought it is better if they tell me this good news and waiting still. I speak to my mil least 2-3 days in a week and my Cosis once in a while may be once in 20 days or so. I don’t have any hard feelings nor any expectations. I am visiting India to my cousin’s daughter wedding. This was planned long back. Looks like godh bharai is also next month but I have no news of it yet. Now my mil is insisting me to go to directly to my cousins place(Nagpur). And she will send my clothes to my cousin place with someone. Which is ok. But my problem is after I met with an accident this year I lost so much weight and I don’t know which dress and saree will fit me, plus all my jewels I prefer to see and match what I wear. I don’t know what to do now. I don’t know why they are trying to avoid me. Or they might have forgotten. I thought of wait for few more days and see, If I don’t hear anything thinking to tell them I heard the news, I am happy and wish them. Is it ok to do so? Should I keep quiet?