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Discussion in 'Life Without Spouse' started by ansh12, Feb 18, 2008.

  1. lovinglife

    lovinglife New IL'ite

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    Hi Ansh:

    Yes, I totally agree with you. The thinking is very much different in India. I know how hard it is because my sister was widowed when she was 26 and she decided not to get married again. She was only married for 4 years. It's been almost 20 years now....gosh, time flies....she's a surgeon, very independent, but she has faced every possible embarassing situation in all these years.

    Even after all these years, this question still touches a nerve with her and she feels very uncomfortable answering this question when someone asks her about her marital status.

    It does suck!! :-(
     
  2. ansh12

    ansh12 Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi Induskr
    I really feel sorry for your sis.

    This is a difference betwenn a male and a female. I have myself seen cases where male as married within a weak of wife's death(a wife whom he use to love so much). But females, spend whole of their life remembering their husbands.

    I think this mind set should change.

    Love and best wishes
    Ansh
     

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