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What makes a marriage click or sink????

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  1. Jun 30, 2009 #1
    shakambari

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    Hi Friends,

    So many ingredients go into making a marriage

    a rocking success or a dismal failure...

    Can we list out some of them?

    This list may help us understand ourselves

    and make our take us in the right path-


    Let me start the list-

    What makes a marriage CLICK-

    mutual trust,understanding and love

    What makes a marriage SINK?

    Comtempt and hatred for ur spouse, infidelity, interference of a 3rd person...

    Please continue the list dear ILites...:)
     
    shakambari, Jun 30, 2009
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  2. Jun 30, 2009 #2
    nithyadavidson

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    Hi,
    According to me the marriage clicks are:
    Sacrifice, Understanding, Trust, Belief, Love, Care, Honest
    Marriage sinks are:
    Suspicion, not sharing the feelings, not respecting spouses family members, Ego, Illegal relationship, Dishonest
    First of all we should be blessed to get a spouse who is understandable then marriage will be a successful one.
    Rgds,
    Nithya
     
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  3. Jun 30, 2009 #3
    Padmini

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    Dear shakambhari,
    I believe that successful couple     encourage each other not to be always 'us', to take 'me' time, to have 'me' hobbies and even 'me' friends. This way, each partner brings individuality in to the marriage, keeping it fresh and alive. Apart from this, these are necessary for marriage to click"Love Support Tolerance Communication Realistic expectations Caring NurturingSense of humor Commitment Respect Know how to handle conflict Problem solve together Interdependence Caring Enjoy one another Have fun together.so opposite of these are causes for the "sink"
    with love
    pad
     
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    shakambari

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    Dear Padmini,

    Well said.
    Your words are worth their weight in gold...

    Letting ur spouse be his own self instead of being US is an absolute necessity which many of us fail to recognise...


    Thanks for ur fb.

    And I agree with ur views Nithya...Thanks for pposting.
     
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