I have a relative who is my second cousin’s wife and my co sister whom we meet often..they love parties. Problem is that second cousin wife acts like family and puts me in the back burner.My co sister is also okay with that.She is not a bad person but she is more supportive of the other girl than me. When it comes to me..My co sister passive aggressively discourages me,quieter with me but with that other girl,she is very encouraging and jovial. I can clearly see..especially even if I want to invite my co sister alone,the cousins wife will push herself to meet us or my co sister will invite her to my house even before I know.. The second cousin’s wife overdoes chores in my co sisters house,even ready to sweep kitchen floor when we meet,plus talks accordingly to how my co sister likes and they get along very well. They do not realize it hurts to make the family member the guest and guest the family member. For eg: even if I want to help in the kitchen,I need to check with that cousin’s wife..they both will work together and I will be left alone in the couch. My brother in law also Blindly supports my co sister and never corrects her mistakes. He is basically good but too much of a blind support. Whenever we meet,it is me who has to include myself in their conversation and most of the time they are so engaged with each other. My husband says I should adjust,tolerate. Is it worth fighting to be accepted?I just feel like I should walk away.. Either way..I know I will only be blamed.However..it eats my peace of mind.Should I just cut them off? The second cousin’s wife is very scheming and I have dealt with her rudeness and attitude.I moved away and now all is better but since kids are friends and so many family getogethers..tough to avoid. either I have to tolerate but Everytime we meet..they will just have a stern face and after I break the ice,they will be fine. But it is me who have to adjust Everytime. What can be done here? I am Sure they will blame me Entirely which cannot be avoided.. I have no support from any side..