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What irritates you?

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by BhargaviChakravarthy, Sep 11, 2008.

  1. Varloo

    Varloo Gold IL'ite

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    Dear Mals,
    your house is neat and tidy AS YOU LIVE ALONE.
     
  2. Varloo

    Varloo Gold IL'ite

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    Hmmm.. what irritates me the most?
    1.When parents are careless with their babies
    2.When people jump queues, educated looking people, that is
    3.When people say 'oh, you have become so thin' to a obese person
    4.When people waste food items (there are so many in this world who don't get even one meal a day)
    5.When people are stupidly superstitious
    there are much more. I don't want to bore you people with all that.
     
  3. Meeta

    Meeta Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi dear all......
    When I was in my college, irritation and me were two sides of a coin and we both existed......though it was a very bad habit of mine rather I should say the worst habit of mine.....I get irritated to many things....messy house.....messy clothing.......bad odour......ill mannered people.......list was endless.......
    I needed everything to be perfect.....but now I am trying to understand that what appers to be perfect to me may not appear the same to another fellow.....so why to waste time going nuts on something......now I have been trying to be happy with whatever is around me.......believe me frds.......once I am happy, the messy things never looks that bad and I could find energy to clean up that mess.....
    Recently I read a book, 'The Happy Book" ....I would like all of us who gets irritated to small/big things to go through that book......it is really worth spending time on......
    Seeing people......talking to the same ill mannered people also let me understand that they are not doing it purposefully.....that was their nature......if needed live with them or leave them....
    Regards
     
  4. SupriyaDinesh

    SupriyaDinesh Silver IL'ite

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    My list

    1.Not returning borrowed items- so stopped lending..except for few
    2.Making others wait
    3.Commenting on physical appearance
     
  5. Sindhuja

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    Nice thread, Bhargavi!

    I get irritated
    1. When people mess in other’s house and go without cleaning it.
    2. When someone wants to get all information from us and do their things secretly.
    3. I also get irritated when my house is not clean.
     
  6. Sindhuja

    Sindhuja Silver IL'ite

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    Oh, yeah! I also get irritated when someone makes me wait for long time.
     
  7. BhargaviChakravarthy

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    Dear saraswati,
    You are not boasting :).You are saying right.I repeat my words in my reply to lata's fb,she too spoke about the same topic.

    Ayyo...I really pity them.I wonder for what purpose or intention they are showing off???

    You are cent percent right.Many people think they are the best in the world and moreover ,they are not aware of their shortcomings,instead go with praises/appreciations.They are carried away by that...

    Thanks for your fb...:thumbsup

    BC
     
  8. BhargaviChakravarthy

    BhargaviChakravarthy Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi dear spandhana,
    No i won't get irritated with your list as my list is too long..Big LaughBig Laugh

    I have also experienced such kind of situations with the autowala.Initially,they are testing us whether we accept it or not.If we accept they can go ahead and it is gain for them.

    I also go with you.My temper drops,if the person pay a deaf ear to what i speak.Of course the world is full of backstabbers.I wonder for what intention they are friendly with us,they can straightforwardly ask us.Is it not?

    You have made me too to pour my thoughts.Thanks for your open fb...
    BC
     
  9. BhargaviChakravarthy

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    Dear varloo
    hmmm.Everybody's list is endless.Big Laugh.I am against carelessness and negligence when it comes to babies.In my reply to latamurali's fb about a person entering the mid of the queue,i repeat my words here.I hate it.
    I strongly go with you.When i standing in supermarket,some one may casually enter the mid of the row.But now a days,some body or the other are poking their nose.They ask openly there itself.That is to be appreciated


    Some body has even made a mention about asking obvious questions like "Why are you so lean" I too get disturbed by these meaningless questions.While there are lot many good issues to be discussed,why people rush to these pessimistic questions.It really tenses me.

    I think many of us are alike in common problems like wastage of food,electricity.What to say??They do not know the value of it.

    Though people believing superstitions is decreasing now,still there are some credulous people.They lack the capacity to think..

    Thanks for sharing your views openly...

    BC
     
  10. Oviya

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    Dear BC,

    I used to get irritated (and reacted)almost for all the things which I read in this thread.

    Though, I haven't stopped getting irritated, the percentage of irritation is very much lesser now. The reaction, I mean forceful, to irritations are almost zero. If we think, we would realise for somethings, nothing can be done and for someother things, there are way outs which can be very sweet and polite which don't let the irritations exist.

    I never thought the motherhood to a small kid would change me to a great extent. But, that is the reason. In the process of teaching values, I learnt rather I recalled a lot....

    Am I sounding different? Sorry. I am not the same as before......
     
    Last edited: Sep 13, 2008

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