I saw previous thread stating misunderstanding to more understanding .. .I must say that it is a very happy ending. In my case there is still after 7 and half years of marriage still misunderstanding I dont think more understanding will happen ever? Because as I tried to explain and get along with my MIL as her ego and controlling mind is never seems to change. She couldnt agree /tolerate that it my husband and it is our life. she still insist that it is her son and she has brought him up so she knows what he wants and she will continue to give suggestions for him. My husband tried to balance between both of us and I should say he failed and he agreed that we both are immature and he couldnt do anything about us. Any body here had same situations like no understanding happens between you and MIL? what is happening because of that? In my case because of that my husband is terribly sad that we are not getting along well. If I completely agree with them or go along with their decisions everything is good . share your stories and give me your suggestions do I have to mend more ?