@anika987 - we had this car that we drove in Bangalore. It came out of the garage brand new and got dinked by an auto. The more we fixed the dents the more dents she acquired. We accepted the car with her dents and scrapes and were so much better off for it. No point fixing each scrape because that’s Bangalore traffic for you. I tell my DH that I’m like that car. He has to accept me with the dents and scrapes because there is no point of trying to do otherwise. If you fix one problem another arises to make me worry. I’m a work in progress and do need his constant reassurance. This post reminds me of that conversation. Thank you for sharing.