As a society, we are constantly assuring everyone else of our feminism, while counteracting it with cultural upbringing and family traditions. It’s entirely confusing to envision the type of women we should aspire to be. Surely, the gold standard is not Supermom+domestic goddess? and if it was, isn’t it impossible to live a happy life, if we are so busy pleasing others. So this question is to understand what each member considers an empowered woman. Maybe if we can identify our goal, we can change our lives to move to the bigger picture.