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What do you ladies do when your MIL ignores you and won't talk to you

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by sunshine1970, Mar 18, 2014.

  1. sunshine1970

    sunshine1970 Gold IL'ite

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    This has happened to me many times over 13 years, but this time it is different as it has went on for 3 weeks. The only difference is I am not going up to her and talking to her like I usually do. I am completely letting her have her tantrum. My DH is not telling me to talk to her either, he insists I not mingle with her too much as she creates stories from anything. It was a little uncomfortable in beginning but now I am enjoying it, don't have to hear nagging, complaining, whining, they think they are punishing you but its a welcome vacation. So how do you ladies feel when you are being ignored and ostersized my MIL- I am thoroughly enjoying it right now.
     
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  2. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    Good for you girl! You have cracked the code.That is the best way to deal with such a situation.
     
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    tulipzz Platinum IL'ite

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    Oh I've been vacationing for over 3yrs now! Bliss! Enjoy!
     
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    vidu24 Silver IL'ite

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    oh! i am not there yet. enjoy the vacation.
     
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    funbee Silver IL'ite

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    Great!. I did that too. And that is the only way you can get some peace in the family life. If you start talking again, right away she will forget all (or atleast act as if nothing was wrong with her) and continue the torture. Hell with that.
    NO i will keep this peace and joy for rest of my life.
     
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    This is a temporary phase.. slowly u'll start disliking the negativity..
     
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    padmaja909 Platinum IL'ite

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    best form of revenge is ignoring laugh1smiley
     
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    nalinidiv Platinum IL'ite

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    i will be happy make sure she notices dat am happy without talking to her.. byhumimg songs and showing no remorse!!!
     
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    I am so fedup with tantrums like this and told by other mates.....ignoring is the best answer and solution.
     
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    Bavishya Platinum IL'ite

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    Ignoring is the best way to follow
     
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