what do u do?when DH taunt on irrelevant topics

tanu khurana · Apr 28, 2010

i need ur opinion on a thing- what do u people do whn dh taunts on irrelevant little things? e.g., dn,t talk about my parents?y u said this to my mom whn i did,t said and he never aceepts his mom lied? y u always bother about shop,n? u look'd unshaped? on each and every thing which irritates?
i think in my case he enjoys taunting me and making fun of me especially in front of others?i feel so annoyed sometime n feel lik crying and didnt know hw to handle it?

ShilpaMa · Apr 28, 2010

Calmly tell him back in front of all, you dint enjoy his joke, this is not an appropriate place & people to mock at & would appreciate that he doesn't repeat in future.

It really makes a difference, but you have to tap your emotions & be absolutely calm yet firm.

Pontu · Apr 28, 2010

I ignore most of the time as I know its his habit. He particularly likes to mock at my parents and my brother, even though he knows very well that it ignites me to the core. i remain calm and pretend i dont care at all about his silly opinion but when he gives mean remarks i cant stop saying some really hurtful things to him as well. However, i try never to backfire about his mother or siblings as i know it will only make the matter worse even though they are really really selfish and mean. I strongly believe that if a husband is disrespectful to his wife`s parents or siblings, he is indirectly disrespecting her as well. A person has zero respect in my eyes if he disrespects and abuses other people and i am not afraid to express my opinion out loud.