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what do u do?when DH taunt on irrelevant topics

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by tanu khurana, Apr 28, 2010.

  1. tanu khurana

    tanu khurana Bronze IL'ite

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    i need ur opinion on a thing- what do u people do whn dh taunts on irrelevant little things? e.g., dn,t talk about my parents?y u said this to my mom whn i did,t said and he never aceepts his mom lied? y u always bother about shop,n? u look'd unshaped? on each and every thing which irritates?
    i think in my case he enjoys taunting me and making fun of me especially in front of others?i feel so annoyed sometime n feel lik crying and didnt know hw to handle it?
     
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  2. ShilpaMa

    ShilpaMa IL Hall of Fame

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    Calmly tell him back in front of all, you dint enjoy his joke, this is not an appropriate place & people to mock at & would appreciate that he doesn't repeat in future.

    It really makes a difference, but you have to tap your emotions & be absolutely calm yet firm.
     
  3. Pontu

    Pontu New IL'ite

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    I ignore most of the time as I know its his habit. He particularly likes to mock at my parents and my brother, even though he knows very well that it ignites me to the core. i remain calm and pretend i dont care at all about his silly opinion but when he gives mean remarks i cant stop saying some really hurtful things to him as well. However, i try never to backfire about his mother or siblings as i know it will only make the matter worse even though they are really really selfish and mean. I strongly believe that if a husband is disrespectful to his wife`s parents or siblings, he is indirectly disrespecting her as well. A person has zero respect in my eyes if he disrespects and abuses other people and i am not afraid to express my opinion out loud.
     

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